By Nomathemba Pearl Dzinotyiwei

Introduction
Some connections go beyond logic and linger in the shadows of our spirit. You think you’ve moved on, yet their energy still clings. You feel them in your thoughts, your dreams, your emotions—even when they’re no longer physically present. This is not just memory. This is a soul tie.
Soul ties are powerful spiritual and energetic bonds formed through deep emotional, sexual, or spiritual connections. While some are sacred and life-giving, others become toxic, draining, and invasive. In this post, we’ll explore what soul ties are, how they affect your spiritual essence, and offer rituals, tools, and affirmations to break free, cleanse, and reclaim your power.
🔮 What Are Soul Ties?
A soul tie is a deep energetic link that connects you to another person. These bonds are often formed through:
Sexual intimacy Emotional trauma bonding Spiritual connections (like shared rituals or oaths) Prolonged toxic relationships (romantic, familial, or even professional)
While soul ties can be beautiful in healthy relationships, they become spiritually dangerous when they form with narcissists, manipulators, or energy vampires.
🩸The Dark Side of Soul Ties: Spells, Hexes & Energy Drain
Unhealed or malicious soul ties can be exploited for spiritual manipulation. In the hands of the wrong person, soul ties become tools for:
Energy vampirism: Constant emotional pulling or manipulation, even from a distance;
Hexes or binding spells: Using the soul tie as a conduit to curse, trap, or limit your spiritual growth;
Psychic attacks: Nightmares, depression, mental confusion, or sudden fatigue that have no logical explanation;
Emotional sabotage: Recurring feelings of guilt, unworthiness, or obsession tied to a specific person or event(
If you’ve felt inexplicably stuck in a toxic emotional pattern with someone long gone, you may be under the grip of an unhealthy soul tie.
🔥 Rituals to Break Soul Ties and Reclaim Your Energy
Step 1: Awareness + Intention
You must first recognize that the tie exists. Ask yourself:
“Do I still feel emotionally or spiritually tethered to this person?” “Do I feel drained or haunted after thinking about them?” “Am I struggling to move on despite my efforts?”
Set a clear, strong intention: I am ready to release this tie and reclaim my energy.
✂️ Cord-Cutting Ritual

You’ll need:
White candle (for purity) Black candle (for protection) Bowl of water, Pair of scissors or a ritual knife, String or yarn (to symbolize the tie) Paper & pen
Instructions:
Cast your circle or create a quiet, sacred space. Write the person’s name or situation on a piece of paper. Feel the emotion. Let it rise. Tie a string between two objects to symbolize your connection. Light the candles on either side. Say: “By fire, by water, by spirit and breath— I now sever the cords that bind me to death. No more will you drain me, no more control— I reclaim my power, I restore my soul.” Cut the string while envisioning the tie being severed. Burn the paper in the flame and drop the ashes into the bowl of water. Pour the water into the earth or down a drain, saying: “This tie is broken. So it is. So it shall be.”
🛁 Spiritual Bath for Cleansing Residual Energy
Ingredients:
2 cups Epsom salt, or coarse salt and
A handful of fresh rosemary or basil (protection); or 1–2 drops of lemon, lavender, myrrh or frankincense oil;
White rose petals (optional); A black obsidian or clear quartz crystal
Instructions:
Run a warm bath and add the ingredients. Sit in the bath, close your eyes, and imagine a golden light cleansing your aura. Say: “I release all that no longer serves me. Every part of me that was entangled is now free.” Let yourself air-dry, allowing the energy to be released.
🕊️ Closing the Portal: Energetic Release & Emotional Closure
After cutting the tie, you must close the portal that allowed the person access. Otherwise, the connection may reattach.
Block and delete them on all platforms. Remove or cleanse any objects or gifts they gave you. Journal a final letter (don’t send it)—burn it to release your voice. Work with a healer or therapist to process deep trauma or psychic wounds
💬 Affirmations to Reclaim Your Power
Repeat these daily, especially after cord-cutting or cleansing:
“I am whole, I am sovereign, I am free.” “I now call all parts of my energy back to me.” “I release you with love, but I choose myself.” “Every tie not formed in divine love is now severed.” “I walk in clarity, grounded in my own light.”
✨ Final Words: Freedom Is a Spiritual Act
Breaking a soul tie isn’t just emotional closure—it’s a spiritual act of freedom and reclamation. When you cut cords, cleanse your field, and close energetic access, you signal to the Universe: I choose myself. I honor my light. I welcome only that which uplifts and aligns with my highest good.
Your soul is your own. Your energy is sacred. It’s time to return to wholeness.
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If you’ve experienced deep soul ties or breakups that linger long after the person has gone, share your story or questions below. Let’s reclaim our energy for lasting peace, joy and abundance.
























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